Thursday, February 23, 2006

Useless Tidbit

Did you know...

'If one places a tiny amount of liquor on a scorpion, it will instantly go mad and sting itself to death.' - from the Book of Useless Knowledge

That is just a little bit of useless trivia I wanted to share!

Wednesday, February 22, 2006

Quote Of The Day

"He who runs from God in the morning will scarcely find him the rest of the day." - John Bunyan

Too Late

Yesterday, I was unable to blog because I mismanaged my time. What I thought would be the most opportune time turned out to be full of other conflicts.
Here is the layout of my day yesterday:

Our meeting with the Elders ran longer than I expected. It was a good meeting, though.

I grabbed a bite for lunch and brought it back to the office.

Some girls from the youth group called me to tell me that they were stranded at Storm's(a Sonic type restaurant) and needed a lift to another vehicle.

I met with Allan and Jim about the Winter High School Retreat coming up this weekend.

I left to be with Elizabeth and get ready to go...

To the Lady Stangs basketball game in Dripping Springs, which is about an hour away.

We had dinner afterwards with the Futrells, the Herringtons and Jeremy at El Charro.

Then we grabbed a couple of Blizzards from DQ on the way home.

I could have then picked up my laptop at the office on the way home, but decided to fill you in this morning.

How you like them apples?

Monday, February 20, 2006

Broken In

Today, Elizabeth and I took our transcripts over to the Marble Falls School District Central Offices and are officially on the Sub list. She will be subbing tomorrow at Colt Elementary.

We also had lunch with two very fine people of this family, Guy and Ruth Ann Nelson. They are excited about the future of the youth program. So am I!

I was pulled over by the police today as I was driving on a one way street going the opposite direction. Since I am a stranger in this foreign land, I was let off the hook with a verbal warning. I did not see the signs and it is only one way for a block or two. Very strange!

I have now officially been broken in to Texas!

Friday, February 17, 2006

Special Times

Today is a special day for some:

Elizabeth and I are spending some great time together today and tomorrow in the fair city of Austin. We are going to celebrate a tardy Valentine's Day by eating out, going to the mall, staying in a hotel and visiting the Bob Bullock Texas Museum of History. I can't wait!

Whitney S. is celebrating her birthday today. Happy Birthday!

Tori G. is, too. Happy Birthday!

And, last but not least, my sweet mom is celebrating her birthday.

I will never forget everything that you have done and continue to do for me, Mom. I love you for being there to talk with me through the years that I was the 'cute, little white blond headed boy that was into everything' through the years that I was not so cute and still into everything, the times that I was the little pesky brat, and the times that I thought I was too big for my britches. You were there through it all with the patience of Job.

Thank you for always being there to help me, talk with me, comfort me and put me in my place.

Thank you for the shared laughter, tears, joy and'Mom's Sermons.'

I love you for the spiritual insight you have given me and all the Godly wisdom that you passed down to me from Dee Dad, Gran and Granny Mac.

You will always have a huge place in my heart for being a mother with such a deep, rich faith and love. It runs so wide and so deep that you could do nothing else but pass it on to Misti and me.

I love you dearly and I hope that your day is a very special one.

Happy Birthday, Mom!

Thursday, February 16, 2006

Dropping Like Flies

Jim Gardner came in for a while this morning, but left because his flu is not yet gone. Our secretary is still out with her virus and Allan Stanglin's daughter, Valerie, is sick with the crud. Others in the family here have called with similar illnesses. Knock on wood, I have not gotten sick thus far.

My sweetheart arrived into town last night in time for a quick visit, grab a bite to eat for dinner and come to class to meet the youth group. I was so happy to see her finally arrive to be here with me! I love her so much. She is my life.

In class I thought it only apropos to teach about the love God calls us to have for Him, our Christian families and our enemies. The hard thing to understand or apply is that the same agape love is called for in each circumstance. To truly be followers of Jesus, we must have agape love for not only God, other believers and friends, but also for our enemies. We are called to deeply love, cherish and have full compassion on our enemies. Tough pill to swallow, huh?

The same agape love for all!

Wrap your minds around that for a while.

Wednesday, February 15, 2006

Strange Day

What a day! Jim Gardner is sick with the full blown flu. Our secretary, Ann, is home with a horrible virus. Our Associate Minister, Allan, is in class at the Austin Graduate School of Theology. I am it - the one man show answering calls, folding papers, mailing letters, prepping a class and hoping that none of those nasty viruses are hanging in the air around here. This day is very quiet and strange.

The good news is (not that I saved a bunch of money by switching to Geico) that my sweetie is en route as I type this blog. She and Grammy are about 115 miles outside of Dallas right about now. I can't wait to see my family!

That is all for now. Gotta get back to work.

Tuesday, February 14, 2006

Valentine's

Lonely days are gone. My sweetie's coming home! Elizabeth is driving down tomorrow with Grammy (Jim Gardner's mom, Sherry) our dog and cat, Peanut and Gabbi, our clothes and some books in tow. I am so excited to see my sweet pea!

I couldn't bear the loneliness anymore. We were going to wait on the carpet guys with no way of knowing exactly when they would get around to laying the living room floor, so I took matters into my own hands. I made some calls, asked a few favors and voila: She is coming tomorrow!! Happiness is an understatement at this moment!

Even though I was alone on Valentine's, my joy for her arrival is unbounded or unbridled or however you want to put it...

I feel like I am blabbering on like a schoolboy with a huge crush. I am just very excited to see the woman that completes my heart once again.

Monday, February 13, 2006

Blessed

God has blessed us all in the Marble Falls family with a great starting day. Yesterday was a moving day for me as I heard the Word broken forth in fresh and applicable ways, as I saw loving, concerned come forward for prayer and encouragement, as I got to strengthen my relationship with the youth and as we all fellowshiped together. I could not ask for a better Lord's Day. This family is indeed greatly blessed!

Lyrics Of The Day

"Father God
Just for today
Help me to walk
Your narrow way
Help me stand
When I might fall
Give me the strength
To hear Your call
May my steps be worship
May my thoughts be praise
May my words bring
Honor to Your name"

Would that this was our daily song/prayer to our God every day of our lives!

Friday, February 10, 2006

History of Texas

Last night, I tried to blog to no avail. The blogsite was down. I filled out a large blog and then it would not be posted or saved as a draft. So it was all for naught.

Now I will try to reiterate what I typed last night.

Yesterday, Jim, Allan and I spent the day bonding with one another at the Bob Bullock Texas Museum of History. What a great day of historical fact and fun! If you have not been to this museum, you should go out there and experience it for yourself. Even if you are not a Texan, you will feel the pride and passion of the Texas spirit.

Later last evening, I was able to be with the young couples of the congregation in the Valentines Bunco at the Clark's house. Even though I was without my sweetheart, Elizabeth, they let me join in the fun with another member who was without her spouse. What I thought would be a boring evening turned out to be a great, exciting night!

Tonight I traveled to Austin for the Weekend of Champions held by Prentice Meador and Westover Hills. A nice group of men from our family here were able to attend what I believe to be a great event for shaping and maturing men to be the Godly leaders that we are called to be.

I will finish up my thoughts on this tomorrow after the event has come to an end.

Wednesday, February 08, 2006

Sub Training

Wow, what a morning!! I went to visit one of our members, who also happens to be Colt Elementary Principal, John Shumacher, to get acquainted with him and the schools and I went right to work. John took me over to a Substitute training course that had just begun. I went in and sat through a 3 and a half hour presentation and filled out bunches of paperwork. The training course happens only 3 times a year (February, August and November) and I just so happened to come in on the right day. Wild, huh?!? I just about have everything I need to be a Sub. I am only waiting on my university transcript, then I will be getting out there with the youth like I did in AR.

As I prepare for this evening's class, I reminisce about the teens and tweens that I was blessed to work with in the Village. I miss them soooo much and I hope that they are doing great. I know that Mike, Marlon, John, Myron, Jim, Rob, Mitch, Jeff, Lance and Big John are providing the leadership that they need to grow spiritually. God bless you all as you continue to do His work!

Tuesday, February 07, 2006

Lyrics Of The Day

"Crucified
Laid behind a stone
You lived to die
Rejected and alone
Like a rose
Trampled on the ground
You took the fall
And thought of me
Above all"
This morning I was able to sit in on my first official Elder/Minister meeting. I love to sit in with wise, God-loving men and soak up words of counsel and knowledge. It is also a treat to work alongside Jim Gardner once again and to get to know and glean insight from Allan Stanglin. I know that we will make a great team here in Marble Falls!

This afternoon, I will be sitting down with Allan to learn more about the youth composition and innerworkings. He will be handing over the reins, so to speak.

This evening, I am blessed to have dinner with the Stanglins and catch the Lady Mustangs battle it out on the basketball court.

My days here have been filled to the brim with breakfasts, lunches and dinners. But most of all companionship while my sweet wife finishes things up in Arkansas. I miss her so much.

Monday, February 06, 2006

Quote Of The Day

"We don't need to bring people to Christ; we need to bring Christ to them." - Jonathan McKee

Right To Work

I am tired right now. But it is a good, no great, tired. Yesterday, I was able to teach the 9-12 youth in the morning; lead the morning worship; eat with Care Group 1; lead some songs for the devotional at the Gateway Assisted Living Facility; sit in on my first Education Meeting; and I finally wrapped up the day at the Gardners' house for the youth Super Bowl Party/Devotional. Yesterday was a big day for me and I wouldn't trade it for the world. I am so excited to be here and to be used as a servant in God's Kingdom.

Everyone here has been so good to me. Maybe a little too good...my waist is expanding at a rapid rate!! Thank you for all the invites, meals, desserts, cards, calls and warm smiles. I have been truly blessed by all of you-my new family. May God continue to bless you as you seek His will.

Friday, February 03, 2006

New Friday Plans

There is a slight change in plans. I will be going out to the fine city of Austin with Jim, Mandy, Trae, Tori and our dear friend Tara Tate. It will be good to get together with the family and Tara, a friend that I have not seen for a long time.

Quiet Time

This morning is very quiet. Shelly Wenmohs and I are the only ones here this early in the morning. I am just excited to be here in a new office and spend some morning time in prayer with my God.

One of the many great things about our God is that He is always there to hear us. He waits patiently for our 'alone time' with Him. He loves us and will take care of our every need in His omniscient way.

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This evening, I am tempted to go see the Lady Mustangs play some B-Ball. I will report on the sport scene around here when I blog again.

Thursday, February 02, 2006

God Is Good

I need to workout even harder and more frequently than ever! So many people here have already started bringing food and taking me out to eat. It is so nice since I am all alone, but my waist line could expand too fast if I don't keep it in check. Thank you all for your kindness and hospitality.

The youth group here is awesome!! On Monday, around 10 of the teens showed up at my office to welcome me and Elizabeth to our new home and to help us out with anything that we might need. They have been so helpful.

Wednesday evening I was given the opportunity to sit back while Allan Stanglin led the singing and Jim Gardner broke the bread to us. I also got to meet more teens, parents and chaperones. The teens were pumped up and excited about things to come. I guess it was that energy that propelled the huge beanbag fight and the showing off that got started after class. It is great to see their excitement and share their joy.

This morning, I met with Jim, Trae and 15 of the youth for a great breakfast at Super Taco, the breakfast of choice for many in Marble Falls. I am so happy to be warmly welcomed in this way. And I suspect that over these next few weeks, I will get to know them even better!

;I have been blessed with this new family and I pray that I can give to them the leadership that they deserve. To use a favorite phrase of Jim DuBose, I will say: God is good...All the time!

New Beginning

Where do I begin?

I am finally settled down in my new work for the Marble Falls church of Christ in Marble Falls, Texas. I am sorry for the lack of blogging. The computer in my office will not access the internet and I am using the other office computer. I also have been running around trying to get settled here in my new home.

Sunday morning was my last morning with the family in Hot Springs Village, AR. Thank you all for the potluck, nice words, money tree, prayers and send off. I am forever grateful for you all and your loving hearts. I miss you already!

That Sunday afternoon, Elizabeth and I drove out of town and headed toward Texas. We arrived around 12:20 at the home of Jim and Mandy Gardner. Thank you, Gardner Family, for putting us up for the night!

We awoke at 8:30 the next morning and got ready to move into our new place across from the church building. We unpacked the U-Haul into the house and my new office and took it back before lunch on Monday. We were able to eat at the Blue Bonnet Cafe (a celebrated, historic restaurant in this area). We both had a nice slice of pie for dessert. The rest of the day we spent getting my office in order.

Tuesday, we opened a bank account, joined the Marble Falls Athletic Club and looked the town over. I took my sweetie pie to the airport that afternoon to see her off and start my 2-3 weeks of bachelorhood. After that I spent 4 hours at Barnes & Noble, Borders and Best Buy to get my mind off of her leaving. It is very lonely here without my better half.

I will be back shortly to tell you all about the wonderful family here in Marble Falls.

Saturday, January 28, 2006

Last Day

Today is my last full day to be here with my friends and family. Elizabeth and I have been going nonstop this last week trying to say our goodbyes, pack up, get the Uhaul, clean out and clean up my office and thank my colleagues for all they have done.

I have just today seen my Dad, Mother-In-Law and Sister-In-Law. We are going to spend some time together before I head out tomorrow.

Tomorrow is a big day. After class and worship, there will be a potluck and then we will say a final farewell and head down the road to Marble Falls, TX. There we will start a new work with a new youth group.

I love and will miss everyone in AR greatly!

Thursday, January 26, 2006

Clean Up

Today is the designated office clean up and out before I leave. It is really a bittersweet day for me. I am really excited about beginning a new work and continuing a strong relationship with my friend Jim Gardner. At the same time I am sad to leave the family and youth I truly love and cherish in my heart.

I will be taking a group of 7-12 graders out to lunch today for the last time and I am praying that I will get through without bawling my eyes out. They don't know just how much they mean to me.

Keep me, Elizabeth and the family here in your thoughts and prayers.

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Thank you, Diane! Our talk this morning means a lot to me.

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Mama Milligan, hang in there. I will miss being able to talk with you every day. It was a joy to work with you. God bless you and Johnny.

Wednesday, January 25, 2006

Quote Of The Day

"[S]ome...think that God is a Wizard-of-Oz or Sistine-Chapel kind of being sitting at a location very remote from us. The universe is then presented as, chiefly, a vast empty space with a humanoid God and a few angels rattling around in it, while several billion human beings crawl through the tiny cosmic interval of human history on an oversized clod of dirt circling an insignificant star. Of such a "god" we can only say, "Good Riddance!" - Dallas Willard

Tuesday, January 24, 2006

Letting Go

Think you're in control? Think again. I can't stand it when someone thinks they are in control of others lives, let alone their own. I get mad at myself when I have the gall to believe that I am in control of others or myself. The hard truth of the matter is we are not in control of much in this life.

God is!

When we finally stop spinning around from the backlash that comes from our desperate attempts to do things our way, we will settle down and see that He, and He alone, is in control of everything.

He molds.
He shapes.
He leads.
He calls.
He guides.

Why? Because He is the only omniscient being and everything would just go to garbage otherwise. When we think we know best, we don't. Our heavenlyFather needs to be given the reins. Folks, it is so much better that way.

Monday, January 23, 2006

Salt Bowl




Yesterday, I was given the honor and privilege to lead 500+ teens and adult chaperones in worship. It was the first of many Salt Bowl Ministries formed by Northside church in Benton and Bryant church. 37 from the Village church drove over last night to the brand spanking new Northside Family Life Facility to worship and fellowship with other Central Arkansas teens and tweens. Mike Knappier spoke to us about the life of deditcated, celebratory Christians. The Sandstone drama team S.W.A.T. brought some great Christian skits and the singing groups Free Indeed and One Spirit put on an awesome concert. And, of course, Pizza was provided at the end. Here are some pics of the night.

Friday, January 20, 2006

Funny

Just a little something funny that most of us can relate to:

"Recently, I was diagnosed with A. A. A. D. D. - Age Activated Attention Deficit Disorder.
This is how it manifests:

I decide to water my garden. As I turn on the hose in the driveway, I look over at my car and decide my car needs washing.

As I start toward the garage, I notice that there is mail on the porch table that I brought up from the mail box earlier. I decide to go through the mail before I wash the car.

I lay my car keys down on the table, put the junk mail in the garbage can under the table, and notice that the can is full. So, I decide to put the bills back on the table and take out the garbage first.

But then I think, since I'm going to be near the mailbox when I take out the garbage anyway, I may as well pay the bills first. I take my check book off the table, and see that there is only 1 check left. My extra checks are in my desk in the study, so I go inside the house to my desk where I find the can of Coke that I had been drinking.

I'm going to look for my checks, but first I need to push the Coke aside so that I don't accidentally knock it over. I see that the Coke is getting warm, and I decide I should put it in the refrigerator to keep it cold.

As I head toward the kitchen with the Coke, a vase of flowers on the counter catches my eye--they need to be watered. I set the Coke down on the counter, and I discover my reading glasses that I've been searching for all morning.

I decide I better put them back on my desk, but first I'm going to water the flowers. I set the glasses back down on the counter, fill a container with water and suddenly I spot the TV remote. Someone left it on the kitchen table.I realize that tonight when we go to watch TV, I will be looking for the remote, but I won't remember that it's on the kitchen table, so I decide to put it back in the den where it belongs, but first I'll water the flowers.

I pour some water in the flowers, but quite a bit of it spills on the floor. So, I set the remote back down on the table, get some towels and wipe up the spill. Then, I head down the hall trying to remember what I was planning to do.

At the end of the day:
----the car isn't washed,
----the bills aren't paid,
----there is a warm can of Coke sitting on the counter,
----the flowers don't have enough water,
----there is still only 1 check in my check book,
----I can't find the remote, ----I can't find my glasses,
----and I don't remember what I did with the car keys.

Then, when I try to figure out why nothing got done today, I'm really baffled because I know I was busy all day long, and I'm really tired.

I realize this is a serious problem, and I'll try to get some help for it, but first I'll check my e-mail."

Thursday, January 19, 2006

Unforgivable?

Last night, we tackled a subject that is not only difficult for the teens in the group, but for me and many adults as well.

The forgiveness of sin.

More specifically, the forgiveness extended to abominable people. People that our society has written off or deemed beyond forgiveness. People like Jeffrey Dahmer whose sins/crimes include murder and cannibalism, to name a few.

The question posed was this: Can people like Dahmer, Hitler and Manson be offered the same forgiveness by God as you and I? After all, we are "normal" and they are not!

One of the teens spoke up with the right answer: Yes! He later followed up by stating that "people like that shouldn't be given" that same forgiveness.

Isn't that how we feel sometimes? Not everyone is as good as me or my friends. We should be offered something better. Our slate should be wiped fully clean while the others should still have tally sheets with some sins remaining. They don't deserve to be made white as snow!

Guess what, none of us do. The apostle Paul wrote in his letter to the Romans that "all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God." We are all sinners in the same boat. God offers the same forgiveness to us all whether we cheat on a test or commit heinous crimes.

All we have to do is seek His offered forgiveness and do His will. Isn't that amazing?

Tuesday, January 17, 2006

Clay For The Potter

"Change my heart, O God
Make me ever true
Change my heart, O God
May I be like You

You are the Potter
I am the clay
Mold me and make me
This is what I pray

Change my heart, O God
Make it ever true
Change my heart, O God
May I be like You"

The words of this song resound to me and were imprinted on the minds of several youth that were able to give themselves over to God to be shaped and formed by His loving hands this past weekend at the annual Set Your Sights Retreat in Hot Springs. It touched my heart to see many young hearts open up to their youth leaders, their friends and God for renewal and reshaping. Several from my group had tears in their eyes as they professed their love for Jesus and their determination to be fully back in His loving arms.

Ahh, the openness of youth! If somehow we could never lose the soft hearts that we had when we were young. Guess what, we are never too old to be changed and formed by our Maker. They say that you can't teach an old dog new tricks. I strongly beg to differ. At any age, one can let go and let God do His beautiful work within us. Pray that we will always remain clay for the Potter.

Friday, January 13, 2006

Back In The Game

Yesterday I was down for the count with sickness. Today, after plenty of rest, I am back in the game. This evening, I will be taking 13 kids over to the annual Set Your Sights Retreat here in Hot Springs over by Lake Catherine. The theme this year is "Pass the Salt." It is there to remind us that we are the salt of the earth and that we must hold on to our God-Flavoring to reach the lost world.

How is your seasoning?
Are you God flavored and set apart?
Or are you going with the flow of this world?

As Christians, we must always be seeking to better ourselves through constant Word study, prayer and fellowship. By doing so, we 'up' our salinity levels for the preservation of the lost in the world.

Wednesday, January 11, 2006

Procrastinating

The following is the beginning excerpt from Paul Graham's work on good and bad procrastinating. This is a must read for all teens and parents out there that like to put important things off to the last minute.

"The most impressive people I know are all terrible procrastinators. So could it be that procrastination isn't always bad?

Most people who write about procrastination write about how to cure it. But this is, strictly speaking, impossible. There are an infinite number of things you could be doing. No matter what you work on, you're not working on everything else. So the question is not how to avoid procrastination, but how to procrastinate well.

There are three variants of procrastination, depending on what you do instead of working on something: you could work on (a) nothing, (b) something less important, or (c) something more important. That last type, I'd argue, is good procrastination.

That's the "absent-minded professor," who forgets to shave, or eat, or even perhaps look where he's going while he's thinking about some interesting question. His mind is absent from the everyday world because it's hard at work in another.

That's the sense in which the most impressive people I know are all procrastinators. They're type-C procrastinators: they put off working on small stuff to work on big stuff.

What's "small stuff?" Roughly, work that has zero chance of being mentioned in your obituary. It's hard to say at the time what will turn out to be your best work (will it be your magnum opus on Sumerian temple architecture, or the detective thriller you wrote under a pseudonym?), but there's a whole class of tasks you can safely rule out: shaving, doing your laundry, cleaning the house, writing thank-you notes-- anything that might be called an errand."

If you would like to continue on in the reading, go to www.paulgraham.com

Tuesday, January 10, 2006

Just A Little Talk...

This morning, I was blessed to have one of my mentors, Rick Northen, visit with me in the office and spend some quality time in prayer with our Father. How great it is to be able to have someone(other than a spouse)to share, vent, dream and talk to God with. Before Jim Gardner left for Texas and Rick left for Cambodia, we would meet together early every Sunday morning to talk with one another and God. This morning all the great memories came flooding back as we bowed before the throne to bring words of praise and supplication. Rick, thank you for stopping by and lifting me up!

How many of you out there have a prayer partner? If you don't, I encourage you to find a confidant that will kneel with you in communion with God through Jesus. Start the year out by building a relationship with a brother or sister in Christ and refreshing/renewing your life conversation with God. There is no better way!

Monday, January 09, 2006

Quote Of The Day

"God wishes to be seen, and he wishes to be sought, and he wishes to be expected, and he wishes to be trusted." - Julian of Norwich

Youth Devo




Here are some pictures of the youth devotional over at the home of Jim and Susie DuBose. Last Sunday evening we loaded up and headed over to the house to eat chili and have some devotional time with God. It was great to have 40+ there to meet and greet the new minister and his wife. Their children, Tim and Emily, were there also to get to know the youth and parents.

Thursday, January 05, 2006

Amazing!

There are no other words that come to mind. Vince Young is simply amazing! I could not sit still last night as I watched the #1 team, USC, duke it out with #2, Texas. How many times did the lead change in the second half?!? What a nail-biter! But in a crunch, Young showed the stuff that sports legends are made of. What a player! I bet old Jim Gardner is eating yesterday's score prediction from the spoon of overjoyed Texans right about now.

Since I am soon to be moving down to the Austin area, I guess I will have to become accustomed to wearing burnt orange. I look forward learning to hook 'em horns, to singing the fight song and to living in the land of champions.

Wednesday, January 04, 2006

2006

For those of you that are attacking 2006 with resolutions, change and the honing of mental and physical health I have a suggestion. Read the following article by Mike Cope. It puts to words what has been on my mind for the last few years better than anything I have read lately. Here it is:

"For a better 2006 . . .

STOP SPENDING MONEY YOU DON'T HAVE

The gap between what you really need and what our consumer society shouts out that you really need is growing rapidly.But that gap wouldn't matter if people couldn't pay to stretch themselves too far. And that's where credit cards come in. Enjoy now. Pay later. Slide the card. Take out the loan. Borrow just a bit more. And we ministers see the broken results all around us. People are in debt up to their eyeballs. They aren't free to do the things they want to do like respond generously when they see others in need because they have no financial margin.So here's the difficult truth: your children don't need cell phones; you probably don't need a cell phone; you don't need a health club membership; you don't need an expensive vacation; you don't need an SUV; your kids don't need the latest fashions; your family can survive without high-speed internet and cable. I'm not saying these are wrong. If you can afford them while living with generous hearts, then great. But they are not worth living without financial margin.

STOP DIETING

Wacky diets continue to come and go. Stop the starve-and-balloon diet process. Eat right. Don't overeat. Cut back -- WAY back -- on fast food. (If this is hard for you, check out "Supersize Me" and watch it every couple months. That should help.)Veggies. No secret there. Veggies, fruit, beans, nuts, lean meat (most of the time). But enjoy a steak. Slap on the butter when you want it. Just eat reasonably most of the time. Party on Friday.

STOP OBSESSING ON THE LAST TEN POUNDS

When anorexic models are plastered all over the covers of magazines, it's easy to obsess on getting rid of those last ten pounds. To be honest, that isn't very reasonable for people who are over 30 and can't hire a personal chef and don't have four hours a day to work out with a personal trainer.For health reasons, keeping weight down is usually good. But it's a huge leap from that to our obsession with being perfectly fit and trim. Part of what happens in a health club is, well, healthy; but much of it isn't.Find a work-out routine that works for you. Something to get the heart rate up a bit: jogging, climbing stairs, biking, walking, etc. Get into a regular routine.The goal here isn't to ditch those last few pounds (though if it happens, you won't be offended!) but to get your heart pumping a little harder. That releases energy that tends to spill over into other areas of your life."

Tuesday, January 03, 2006

Quote Of The Day

"Good equippers do it like Jesus did it: recruit twelve, graduate eleven, and focus on three." - Lynn Anderson

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For the next few weeks I am going to be focusing on a great group of teens and tweens in the 7-12 grade. I will be passing the baton on to them as I leave. I am so proud of the strength that they exhibit. Now, more than ever, it is time for each and every one of them to use the gifts that they have been given for the edification and building up of the body. They have been given the challenge to be encouragers that are constantly positive and to know that the future holds great things.

I look to the strong guidance of Jim DuBose, John Kirk and Mike Sykora, along with others, to lead and aid the continual spiritual growth of the youth in the Village. The men listed here and the other young parents are highly capable mentors in the faith and I know that the youth will lean heavily upon them in this time of transition.

I also look forward to what God has in store for this group in the next leader. So many blessings are coming this way!

Friday, December 30, 2005

I have not blogged very much in the past few days quite frankly because I did not know what to say. So much has been going on around here lately and so much has been going through my head. I am spinning around.

I am excited and happy!

I am frustrated and sad.

I am torn between two loves.

I am emotionally exhausted.

For those of you that do not know. My wife, Elizabeth, and I are moving to a new work down in Marble Falls, Texas. We are happy about the new work and I look forward to working once again with my friend, Jim Gardner. I can't wait to get to know Allan Stanglin and Mrs. Ann. The youth group is exciting and ready to grow.

But, I love the people here so much and will miss them more than words can express. The youth here mean the world to me and it hurts me to leave them. I wan them to know not to take it personally. But, there is nothing I can say to ease the pain of loss. I am going through it, too.

Everyone on both ends has been supportive and helpful. Thank you for everything.

All the wisdom.

All the advice.

All the love.

Wednesday, December 28, 2005

Quote Of The Day

"If I ever reach heaven I expect to find three wonders there:
first, to meet some I had not thought to see there;
second, to miss some I had expected to see there;
and third, the greatest wonder of all, to find myself there."
- John Newton

Tuesday, December 27, 2005

Youth

Well, I know that most of you out there are enjoying the holidays. I know that the guys and girls from my youth group are having a blast. I know that for sure because I got a little visit from Ruey and Brett this afternoon. They certainly have too much time on their hands. If you have ever been here, you would know that they are trouble with a capital T without all the free time. lol

Anyway, I am exhausted from the overeating and the lack of sleep over in Conway. My mind is full of future events and memories of past friends. I will fill you in on more of my mind at a later date.

Monday, December 26, 2005

To The Gills

I sit here stuffed to the gills on Christmas Dinner. You see, I am celebrating Christmas with my wife's family today. Because they are in Conway and I had to work yesterday, we are having special celebration today! I am so full and they are calling me in right now for dessert that my sweetie made. Here goes round two...

Saturday, December 24, 2005

His Memory Will Live On

Yesterday, we got the tragic news that Jim Mabery, a hero in the faith to me and countless others, has gone on to heaven to be with his Lord and Savior. While traveling down to Tennessee to share Christmas with family, Jim and Charlotte were in a horrible accident. While Charlotte was scraped up a bit, Jim sustained fatal injuries.

Words cannot express what this great man has meant to me. As a matter of fact, this is the very same man that I blogged about earlier for being a living testimony and tireless worker for the Lord. He has left an indelible mark on the hearts of everyone that has worked with him. For example, his mission work in Ghana has inspired many natives to name their children after him. It takes a powerful servant leader to leave this kind of legacy with his disciples.

My thoughts and prayers are with his wife Charlotte; his children Diane, Chris, Gail, and Lance; their spouses Dimitri, Rick and Shelly; his grandchildren Alexander, Brittany, Greg, Cody and McKayla. I know that I have left many others out, but I pray God's comfort on all that knew and loved this great man of the faith. His memory will forever live on.

Thursday, December 15, 2005

Out Of Pocket

My sweet wife, Elizabeth, and I will be traveling this Friday to Texas for a weekend of 'R and R.' Before she even gets the chance to cry "Calgon, Take me away!" we will take some time to recharge our batteries. She has been completely overwhelmed with work for the past couple of months that I know she is ready to get away for a week or two. I don't know what it is about Texas that draws us, but this will be the 3rd time that we vacation down in the South Country.

Pray for us that we will be safe and that God will bless us while we are away. I know that the youth group here is in the competent hands of Clyde Berry, John Kirk and Mike Sykora. At least until I get back. I am sure that the 7-12 graders will be happy to see some fresh faces in there for a few days.

Also pray for the group while they are celebrating the holidays with some time off from school. Pray that they will focus on the right things and live with the purpose that God has given them while at home, work or play.

Wednesday, December 14, 2005

The Shadow Knows

Today, I have with me young master John Withrow. He is from the Jessieville Middle School and his job today is to shadow me in the inner workings of youth and family ministry. I am excited to have someone that is interested in carrying the torch for future generations. It is my prayer that he will leave here with a better grasp and feeling about working for the Lord in a paid/staff position. Pray for us today!

Tuesday, December 13, 2005

Quote Of The Day

"To worship is to quicken the conscience by the holiness of God, to feed the mind with the truth of God, to purge the imagination by the beauty of God, to open the heart to the love of God, to devote the will to the purpose of God." - William Temple

Living Testimonies

Every once in a while, someone great comes into our lives. We have the chance to see them in action. We get to ride along with them and learn from them. They are different than the others. They march to the beat of some other drum that you have not yet heard. These people constantly raise the bar in all aspects of ministry and evangelism. Don't get me wrong. I am a minister. I love working for the Lord and His people. It is just that I have not made it there yet. I am a slow work in progress. These great people, mentors/guides, if you will, seem to have all the wrinkles ironed out. They are so comfortable in their skin and they want you to feel the same and know the same things they do. One such person, to me, is Jim Mabery. I cannot believe what passion and tireless energy he has. He means so much to me that words fail to explain. His love for the Lord is so evident to anyone that comes in his presence. I do not seem to remember a day or time that he has not been reaching out and working in the Kingdom. His life is a priceless testimony to those that know him. He is a wonderful ambassador for Christ. God bless him and others like him that keep the torch burning. May we see more of these people in the future.

Monday, December 12, 2005

Youth Devotional





Wow! We had a great youth X-mas devotional last night. 40 teens gathered around my living room and discussed the true reason for the season. Yes, we discussed that Jesus was most likely born in Spring or Summer, but we realized that we have a great opportunity to reach out to the lost that normally don't consider God or His son, Jesus, yet ponder Him in December. We, as ambassadors for Christ, should be motivated to reach out to these people and share with them the Good News of our Savior. God left the glory of heaven to become a humble servant and to ultimately die for our sins. Why not let this time of the year be a time for approaching others, who usually may not reflect on His glory, with the Gospel of Jesus Christ?

After the devotional, we had a Dirty Santa gift exchange and ate til our stomachs were bursting. Some then went out to play flashlight tag and hide and seek in the neighborhood. The rest of us stayed inside to play Scene It, the DVD Movie Trivia game. Too much fun! Here are some pictures of the event.

Thursday, December 08, 2005

Let It Snow

This morning we here in the Village awoke to a nice white blanket of snow covering the houses, cars and yards. Jessieville school declared it a 'Snow Day' and all of the kids are jumpin' up and down. Consequently, the young man that had picked my profession to shadow, did not come in this morning. John Withrow will be accompanying me one day next week.

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Only one more day 'til the opening of C.S. Lewis' allegorical masterpiece "The Chronicles of Narnia." How many of you out there have already purchased your tickets?

Wednesday, December 07, 2005

Johnny

I look forward to 'Walk the Line' the biopic of country legend Johnny Cash. Even though country music is not my favorite, Johnny's work has a way of reaching out and grabbing my attention. This man has left an indelible mark on the shape and sounds of today's music. Not just country, but rock and pop as well. As I type this, I am listening to "When The Man Comes Around." What a great song about the return of the King!

Tuesday, December 06, 2005

Frost On The Pumpkin

On the way home from my Dad's house last night, I saw on my Jeep temp gauge that the outside weather had dropped to 23 degrees. Wow! It was quite cold, to say the least. Sitting in the warmth of the Jeep and listening to 94.9 (the station that plays constant Christmas beginning the day after Thanksgiving), I thought about the thrill of changing weather. Some get excited by the warm days of Summer while others await the blustery wind and snow of Winter. Fall brings the changing of the leaves and Spring brings the rain. Each season has an admirer. And God made them all and saw that they were good. It is a thrill to me to watch and embrace the nature that our loving Creator has made for us.

Monday, December 05, 2005

Dad

This afternoon I will spending time with my Dad. We are going to be moving furniture and other items of the labor variety. Not really my cup of tea, but the time spent with my Father will more than make up for the sore back and shoulder muscles.

Time with family members is not a necessity or an obligation, but a great gift that should be seized upon and taken for what it truly is: Bonding and Growth.

I look forward to spending time with my family. Put all of the arguments, rushing and 'trying to find a place to lay your head because the house is just too full' aside and enjoy the quality time that is available to me.

Time spent with those dearest to me.

Friday, December 02, 2005

More Transition

I sit with misty eyes this morning as I await the arrival of our former secretary, Jeanne Lessman. We are heading over to the Shack for burgers, fries and fried mushrooms. But more than that, it will be a time of saying our goodbyes. What a blessing she has been to me not only as a friend and coworker but as a Mother Hen. She has kept me in check many times. She has imparted much wisdom to me through her words of advice and her loving example of sterling Christianity. She has meant more to me and to the other ministers than she can ever know...
I continue to pray that she and her husband, Myron, will bless and be blessed in their new home - Neosho, MO.

I will continue this blog when I return from our time together.

Thursday, December 01, 2005

Injustice

Last night in the youth group, we talked about baggage.  Not the kind we carry with us on vacation, but the emotional baggage that burdens us down every day - the burden of being scorned, wronged, abused, hurt or mistreated by our friends, family or fellow man.  Some of us have the chemical makeup to strike back immediately, but if you are like me, when someone has wronged you, it is easy not to say anything at all and let the pain stay with you until it builds into a festering wound that threatens to destroy.  Either way, no good comes of the situation.  Something needs to be done by someone to make everything right again.    

Last night was a breakthrough for many in class.  In a world so full of “just wait, they’ll see”, I’ll get them”, and “I am going to make them wish they had never messed with me!’ we came to the Biblical conclusion that we are not to avenge the injustices committed against us in the world.  That is God’s business.

He is the one in control.

He knows the hearts and minds of everyone.

He sees the good and the bad.  

We don’t and we can’t.

Isn’t it great to know that Someone more powerful, insightful, loving and forgiving is in control of you and me.  Let’s give all of it over to Him.  He can handle it so much better.

Tuesday, November 29, 2005

More Pics





Here are some more pics of youth and family.

Hits

It has been a maelstrom around here this morning.  With the ladies having a special birthday party for Irene Anglin, who turned 88, and some men tearing down walls to create more classroom space for the adults and teens, it has been quite chaotic.  

My head and heart are still reeling from the blow that our secretary, Jeanne Lessman, is leaving us so soon.  I don’t know what to say…My world is turned upside down.  My Mother Hen is leaving the roost and I have no one to take care of me and set me straight.  First, it was Jim Gardner.  Then, it was Rick and Gail Northen.  Now, Jeanne is leaving.  And the hits just keep on coming!  

Have you ever been down like this?  Where you just felt like all of your dearest loved ones are leaving you all by your lonesome?  It would be great to hear some feedback from some of you out there that have stood up and faced the ‘winds of change’ or the ‘moving of the cheese.’  

Monday, November 28, 2005

Pics






Here are some of the promised pics. They are sort of a collage of Brett Ward's baptism, past activities and interactive classes. Hope that you like them!

Tuesday, November 22, 2005

Trial

This is a trial of the new item that I have downloaded for my blogging.  If this works, my blogs will come directly from Word.  How cool is technology?  If one is not careful, future shock could set in pretty fast.  

Friday, November 18, 2005

Blast From The Past

This morning has certainly been a blast from the past. My old buddy, Jim Gardner, arrived into town last night to share Thanksgiving with his family here in AR. He drove up this morning to the building and we have been hanging out all day. It is great to spend some time with him once again.

We went shopping for the tailgate this evening. Buns, Dogs, Burgers (Jim Burgers?!?) and all the accompanying fare for the avid tailgater. At 6:00 tonight, the food should be edible.

He had a hankering for the Shack (Jessieville's Country Club) burgers and onion rings. With the amount of eating out lately and Turkey Day looming, I should be a bigger man pretty soon.

Jim and I are getting ready to head over to the Jessieville Sports Arena for the pep rally that will boost all of us up for the coming game.

Tonight, the family ministry will host the tailgate as we wait with baited breath as the Lions square off against the Junction City Dragons. It should be a real nail-biter!

Thursday, November 17, 2005

Good Sam

This morning, Jim DuBose and I conducted the the chapel/worship service at the Good Samaritan Nursing Home here in the Village. It was great to see ChloeDean and others in attendance. God speaks to me through ministry to these sweet souls. To see joy and the love of God in the eyes of saints that are nearing the end of their stay here on earth is heartwarming to a young pup like me.

It was also good to be supported by the strong voices of Sam and Betty Laird. I know of no other, more dependable people in the Kingdom. Thank you both for your help!

Wednesday, November 16, 2005

Tailgate

I know that many of you are heading over to the tailgate this Friday. If you don't have that planned, know this: Jim DuBose, Jim Gardner and Jimmy Mitchell will be manning the grills! It will be great to work with the new man and the old man over burgers and dogs.

Now are you enticed?

Jessieville is playing Junction City, so we know that the game is going to be edge-of-your-seat action. Bring a lawnchair and be ready to have some fellowship and fun.

Quote Of The Day

"God is not here to worship me, to mold Himself into something that will help me fulfill my level of comfort." - Donald Miller

Monday, November 14, 2005

All the Small Things

This past Friday, the youth traveled to Benton to have a Lock-In. I will be posting pics in the near future. Although we had a small number of our core group attend, we had a large number of outsiders. A parent or two voiced their concern that too many outsiders were going. "These people are not even in the youth group."

Well, to address that, I would like to say that I am glad that we had a bunch of outsiders go. From that crew, we had several attend last night for the youth connection group that meets at the building. Little by little, God is bringing them to the group.

Many of these kids have parents that do not attend any congregation. They have no etiquette when it comes to church or its activities. Their sense of morality is skewed, if they have any instilled in them to begin with. They cuss, they make crude jokes, they are disrespectful and they talk about things that are taboo. At the same time, they are insecure, vulnerable and searching for something or someone to bring meaning to their lives. They have found the void and want desperately to fill it.

Guess what! Those are the very people that I seek to bring into this ministry. I long to help them find God and His son, Jesus. I believe that Jesus calls all of us who work in ministry to search for this ragtag group of people that have not seen Christ exemplified in anyone around them and show them the greates love and grace that has ever been or will ever be.

Folks, these are the lost.

Let's go out and bring them in to the Savior!

Saturday, November 12, 2005

Vegetable

Well, it is 6:43 on Saturday evening and Elizabeth and I are totally out of it. After watching the Jessieville Lions decimate the Murfreesboro Rattlers in the 1st playoff game, we took a group of 31 teens to Benton to spend a night of devotions, praise and fellowship in Northside's new Family Life Center. Needless to say, there was no sleep. There was a great devotional and singing. There was bowling, volleyball and 'dodge' ball. There was pizza. There was Rocket Man and Herbie: Fully Loaded. There was Dale's Donuts. There was an overall great experience with the family in Benton.

Thursday, November 10, 2005

Quote Of The Day

"With the appearance of the two-bathroom home, Americans forgot how to cooperate. With the appearance of the two-car family, we forgot how to associate, and with the coming of the two-and-three-telveision home, we forgot how to communicate." - Dr. John Baucom

I am a lover of technology! There, I said it. Take me to Best Buy and you might as well pitch a tent, because we are going to be there for a long while. I like computers, music, games, movies, cameras, recorders, televisions, etc. You name it! In the shallower end of moderation, they are fun and entertaining, but, and this is a big but, they do not make us truly happy. If they go unchecked, they can become the idols that will ultimately pull us away from our families, friends and God Himself.

So, enjoy these items of entertainment, but make sure that they do not hinder or replace the relationships that you have built up over the years with people and the God that created you.

Wednesday, November 09, 2005

Here and Now

Well, he has finally walked into the door. The new preaching minister for the VCOC is in the house! Jim DuBose has come in to take a look around at his new work environment. I am so excited about this new ministry here in the Village. Jim is a great guy that will be an awesome partner to work with. We solicit your prayers for this new beginning.

Tuesday, November 08, 2005

Hurry Up!

My new buddy, Jim DuBose, is coming in today! I am so excited to continue my ministry with some new blood. I just want him to hurry up and get here! There are so many things that he has to learn about the Village and its inhabitants. Also about the wild youth group here (especially McKayla). That last part was written because she is watching over my shoulder at this very moment.

Jim and Susie, I know that you will be greatly blessed here in your new work with us. At the same time, we will be encouraged and uplifted by your leadership and ministry.

God will bless us all in this new leg of the Journey!

Spanish and Ministry

I am here at the school once again substituting for the College English and Spanish teacher. We are going to view "The Roots of Rhythm", a docudrama about the roots of Latin music and its present influence.

It makes me think of our (Village church's) new outreach in the Village to the Hispanic community. I thank God for people like Jim Mabery, Marlon Bonilla, Steve Hogue, Carlos and Maribel Preciado and Doug Murray for their passion to seek these people and work with them in their spiritual lives. God has blessed the Spanish Ministry with continual growth and exemplary leadership.

Because of servants like those mentioned before, the kingdom is expanding rapidly. They may not know it, but they are molding and shaping young lives around them. I hope that I, personally, cultivate a passion like this.

Who do you look up to in the faith? Is there a person you know that has such a fire in their bones that they just can't keep quiet?

Monday, November 07, 2005

People After His Heart

Last night, the youth, young families and others met at the home of Lance and Shelly Mabery for the annual Hayride and Weenie Roast. As we sat around the nice, warm fire, we discussed the privilege we have to be God's people!

To have His blessings all throughout our lives.

To share a family tie with other Christians in this world!

To praise God for all that He gives us.

To be constant followers through our highs and lows

To be, like David, men and women after His own heart.

It doesn't get any better than this.

Friday, November 04, 2005

Way To Go, Lions!

It is with great pleasure that I announce that we have home field advantage through the playoffs until the final in Little Rock! Way to go, Don Phillips and the gang, for having such a great season. I am getting ready to man the grill at another tailgate.

I will be back with some pics of recent events here in the Village youth group.

I miss Jim Gardner and family...Rick and Gail Northen...Carlos and Maribel Preciado.

I can't wait to work with Jim and Susie DuBose! They will be here next week.

Wednesday, November 02, 2005

New

Well, Carlos and Maribel left this morning for Nashville en route to Florida. They are already sorely missed. I don't know how I am going to do it without them. They are going to be great blessings wherever they journey in life.

Jeanne, our secretary, and I celebrated our shared birthday with a nice lunch at El Acapulco. We were surprised when it came time to pay the check and someone had already paid for us! Whoever you are, thank you so much for doing that! That was quite a pleasant surprise.

Tuesday, November 01, 2005

Link Additions

I have updated my link list to include some great friends of mine that are in the mission field. Rick and Gail are in Cambodia getting ready to travel up and down the Mekong river supplying natives with physical and spiritual health. Rick and Gail are excellent examples of living by faith and following the call of God.

Carlos and Maribel are preparing to leave the Village and work in South Broward County, Florida. They will be reaching out to the Hispanic communities in and around Miami and Ft. Lauderdale. I love them for their hard work and passion!

God has blessed me with the presence of these 4 people that have totally devoted their lives to God and His work. I know that He will continue to do great things through these 'earthly vessels.'

If you would like to know more about their work, please check out the links to the right of this post.

Monday, October 31, 2005

Sports and the Arts

Last Saturday evening, I had the privilege of performing for the Stonecroft Christian Couples' Club here in the Village. The speaker of the evening was Jim McQueen. I had never heard of him, but he is a very talented Sports Illustrator. His work has been published in Golf Digest, Golf Magazine and Tennis Magazine. He has worked as a freelance illustrator for 40 years. His talk about Jesus was inspiring and encompassed both sports and the arts. If you are a fan of either, you will enjoy his website: www.jimmcqueenart.com

A Day of Records

I am amazed at the greatness of God! Yesterday was our day to give for mission work. The goal was $60,000. Well, we far exceeded that with a number of nearly $80,000 given for foreign and domestic work. Not only were we blessed monetarily, but we also were blessed with more people in the brand-spanking new Spanish Ministry. In a ministry catering to the Spanish speaking community in the Village that began last Sunday morning with 15, we have doubled in one week! 30 people crowded into the youth room to worship together in their native tongue. God is so good!! And I know that He will continue to provide the increase.

Last night, the youth were able to spend time in devotion to God with our missionaries, Carlos and Maribel Preciado. We had so many youth that the house was ready to explode. They are leaving this week for their new work in South Florida. I am going to miss them more than words can describe.

Thursday, October 27, 2005

WOW!

192. Can you believe it?!? We had 192 here at the building last night for Fall Fun Night! Now that is including not only the youth and young families that showed up for tricks and treats , but also the adults that came to the auditorium for the lesson.

It was great to see new young faces and make some new contacts for the church here in the Village! We have our work cut out for us with the new influx of young people. God truly has blessed this place.

Wednesday, October 26, 2005

Back Among the Living

Thank you all for your thoughts and kind words while I have gone through two illnesses back to back in such a short time. You have been very helpful to me and Elizabeth. It is great to be back among the living.

Here are some things to catch you up with the things going on around here:

  • We have hired a new preaching minister. His name is Jim DuBose and he comes from Topeka, Kansas. He will be blowing into town around the second week in November.
  • Rick and Gail Northen, two of the neatest people in our congregation, left for Cambodia to work on a medical missions boat. They left us with a hole in our hearts, but we sent them off with our blessing because we know that God has called them to that work.
  • The youth participated in Cabot Praise 2005 on the 15th. Even though the numbers were low, the learning was great and Watershed Worship was one of the highlights of our time there.
  • Carlos and Maribel Preciado, two people that are dear to my heart, cooked a Mexican Fiesta for the congregation on Wednesday the 19th. Nice and Spicy. The food was so well-received that it ran out quickly.
  • Speaking of Mexican food, there is a new restaurant here called El Acapulco's. It is the talk of the Village. If you have ever been here, you would know why.
  • We had dual services for the first time on Sunday the 23rd. 15 people gathered in the youth room in the morning for worship and Bible study in Spanish. More are coming this Sunday! What a great work!!
  • This evening is our annual Fall Fun Night in the Fellowship Hall. We open up our building to teens and young families in the surrounding area for a time of facepainting, cookie decorating, cake walking, apple bobbing, hay riding and jupiter jumping.

That is all for now. I will be back tomorrow with a new blog.

Monday, October 10, 2005

I'm Out

Forgive me if you have not seen a blog from me for a while but I am suffering from what my doctor calls trigeminal neuralgia (basically the feeling of getting stabbed in the head with an icepick every 15-20 seconds). Doctor Hollis has prescribed Carbamazepine and Hydrocodone. So, needless to say, I am sort of out of it. I am sorry that this blog will be on hold until I am back out of left field. Please be patient with me as I recover.

Wednesday, October 05, 2005

Quote Of The Day

"A Christian doesn't avoid the questions; a Christian embraces them. In fact, to truly pursue the living God, we have to see the need for questions.

Questions are not scary.

What is scary is when people don't have any.

What is tragic is faith that has no room for them." - Rob Bell

Tuesday, October 04, 2005

Eloquence

Here is a blog from Mike Cope that I believe hits home with me and I think will with you as well. He has such a great way with words that I could not pass up placing this on my blog to share his thoughts and insights with my readers.

At our home, we are Shel Silverstein fans. Here's one for today:

I went to find the pot of gold
That's waiting where the rainbow ends.
I searched and searched and searched and searched
And searched and searched, and then--
There it was, deep in the grass,
Under and old and twisty bough.
It's mine, it's mine, it's mine at last. . . .
What do I search for now?


So often we think that there is some great destination that we're waiting for. We find ourselves "killing time" (a horrible phrase) just waiting for that destination. We forget that it's the journey itself that is full of life.

You can't wait for your kids to grow up so you can have a little peace and quiet. There is the joy of the journey.

You can't wait for retirement so you can play golf. There is the joy of the journey.

You can't wait for your church to "do things right" so you can be happy. There is the joy of the journey.

You can't wait for Americans to get back to the good old days. There is the joy of the journey.
Dorothy, the Tin Man, the Lion, and the Scarecrow are headed to Oz. But the heart, the courage, and the brain they need come from the journey--not from the diminutive wizard behind the curtain.


Bilbo Baggins' walking song has it right:

The Road goes ever on and on
Down from the door where it began.
Now far ahead the Road has gone,
And I must follow, if I can,
Pursuing it with eager feet,
Until it joins some larger way
Where many paths and errands meet.
And whither then? I cannot say.


I have my eyes on an incredible destination. But the journey is filled with joy--even in the midst of pain. I don't want to miss that joy!

What's out there on the road for you this day? Don't put off today waiting for Friday. Don't blow off this week waiting for next week or this month waiting for next month or this year waiting for next year. Too many people miss life waiting for something better.

Look out today and smile at THAT spouse, THOSE kids, THAT job, THOSE friends, THAT church, THOSE neighbors.

Monday, October 03, 2005

Blessings

I know that the people in and around Cambodia will be blessed by the presence and hard work of Rick and Gail Northen.

I know that the people of Miami are going to be caught up in the lovestorm that is Carlos and Maribel Preciado. They won't know what hit them.

The family here was certainly blessed to see Mandy and Tori Gardner once again. We were able to worship and fellowship with 2 people we dearly miss.

God has a great way of using others to bless and encourage the rest.

Thank You, God, for what You do through and for us!

Friday, September 30, 2005

Geometry and Blogs

Here I sit once again substituting at Jessieville School. This time the subject is Geometry. Since there is no lesson plan, the students are playing catch up on homework and finding out what everyone is doing for the weekend. McKayla M is sitting on the desk beside me keeping me company while Zach is striving to pop a pencil in the ceiling. The energy of youth!

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Worries and concerns of mine:

How can we reach out to the lost if the saved are constantly arguing over methodology?

Jesus came and shattered perceptions of how we 'do' church. He rebuked and revamped to reach those on the fringe of and outside of religious circles.

Are we not called to do the same thing?

I am not trying to push anyone's buttons, but I genuinely would like to know what we, as servant-leaders in the Kingdom, are supposed to do with the lost.

Tuesday, September 27, 2005

Near The Foothills...

Ahh, Harding University. A great place of academic and spiritual growth. Always buzzing with youthful energy. I have had the privilege to be back on campus for the Lectureships. To hear the story of Jesus from the likes of Randy Harris, Buddy Bell and others is quite a treat. They have such a way about them that keeps the old, old story fresh and ever vibrant for self application. God has greatly blessed these men with the gift of story-telling. Tomorrow, Don McLaughlin will conclude the series with the story of Christ's Resurrection. It will be a blast to sit at his feet as he breaks the bread to us.

I will try to keep the blogs up. I have been leaving early morning and arriving home later in the evening. Today, I had the joy of waking up at 4:15 and chauffering the ladies to their Ladies Day at College Church. I got home early enough to sit down and type this up.

Goodbye for now. I'm off to eat Dinner!

Thursday, September 22, 2005

Quote Of The Day

"Everything in God's store is on the bottom shelf - you have to get on your knees to get it." - Robert Collier

SYATP

Please excuse my absence over the past two days. To say that I am swamped and busy with double duty is an understatement. But here I am now, back in the midst of blogdom.

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95 students of Jessieville schools gathered around the flagpole yesterday to pray for wisdom, safety and strength during this new school year. It was great to see them strong in numbers. While supportive parents and family members stood in the background, teens and tweens took the lead singing songs of praise and lifting up the needs of themselves, their friends and families to their loving Father in Heaven. Posted pics are forthcoming.

Monday, September 19, 2005

Quote Of The Day

"Always have your bags packed; you never know where life's journey is going to take you." - old Appalachian saying

Addition

I added a new link to this blog. Jeff Garrett is very interesting, to say the very least. His perspective is quirky and off-the-wall, but at the same time pretty refreshing and thoughtful.

Friday, September 16, 2005

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Here are some of the 5th graders that I entertain and teach on the third Friday of every month. This morning we learned "Como el Ciervo." That is "As the Deer" in Spanish. We also listened to some interesting remakes of "Over the Rainbow" and "Tomorrow."

Thursday, September 15, 2005

If you have not yet looked at Jim Gardner's Wednesday blog, I suggest that you do so. He has placed some interesting charts there. Are we missional?

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I am now tutoring 2 new students at the High School. One in Algebra and the other in French II. Wow, I have been away far too long. It is quite funny how one can get so rusty in former subjects.

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Last night the youth had a great discussion about Suicide. For many, it is an unpardonable sin. But is it really? God does not condone it, I know, but will the person that ends their own life be sent to eternal punishment? These were the questions that we trudged through in the youth room last night.

What are your thoughts on the subject? Is suicide unforgivable?

Monday, September 12, 2005

Godsends

God has blessed the Village church by sending two very special people to work and worship in our midst. Carlos and Maribel Preciado are two hard working, God loving people that have not stopped working ever since they set foot in the Village! I have had the great honor and privilege to spend some time with them in fellowship. I love them and their tireless evangelistic ethic. I know that they will certainly be blessings to the families that they minister to in South Florida.

Saturday, September 10, 2005

Awesome Tailgate

We had a record number of tailgaters last night! 100 people showed up to eat burgers, dogs, spend time in fellowship, reach out and support the Lions of Jessieville. it was a great night of family and friends.

Jim, 'Naw, You!' was there to partake. He said it a couple of times (for good measure, I guess). I tried to call you but your phone was turned off.

All of the young couples are going to be treated to a special dinner this evening at the home of Rick and Gail Northen. It will be a time of encouragement and goodbyes from the couple that will be soon leaving for Cambodia to continue their work for the Lord (this time on a Medical Missions Boat). We love them so much and will miss them greatly.

Friday, September 09, 2005

Pumped

I am pumped up this morning! I am at Jessieville School this morning substituting for Mrs. Sears (College Engilsh and Spanish Teacher). The atmosphere is abuzz over tonight's upcoming game versus Ola. The VCOC is hosting a tailgate party before the game to get members, both young and old, to come and show their Lion Pride. At this moment, I miss Jim Gardner. He has always been my grill-mate and I don't think anyone can quite fill his shoes. We miss you, Jim. We'll be thinking of you at the game.

Family Matters II

I have been greatly blessed by the company of my sister, Misti, and my nephews, Kameron (3 years old) and Brenden (3 months old). They have been troopers all through staying 9 days in our house without transportation of their own. I love them so much and am glad to be able to really spend time with them.

If you have family, make sure to let them know that you love them and appreciate them. Everyone needs a little verbal reassurance.

Thursday, September 08, 2005

Well we finally fixed the problem. For those of you that were trying to access my blog from the Village church of Christ website, the problem is now repaired. I am sorry that you were taken to the other places. It is now up and running correctly.

Tuesday, September 06, 2005

Whirlwinds

It feels like everything has blown me around lately. Several things have happened to me that are rough and harsh.

Please continue to pray for my famly as they face trying times. As I said in an earlier blog, God knows what you are praying for.

Keep the church family in your prayers as well as they seek a new leader. We know that God will bless us greatly.

My heart goes out to Stephanie H. She was a great asset here in the VCOC and we miss her so much. Sunday morning at around 1:45, she was in a horrible wreck that fractured her ankle and foot in 4 places. Her right arm was badly injured and her neck was fractured as they flipped 6 times. She is in the hospital now and is being taken care of. I pray that God will bless her and her mom, Janet, as she faces physical therapy and 3 months with a neck brace.

It is at times like these that I look up to the heavens and thank God that He is there and able to undertake anything, good and bad, that comes our way. He is always there!

Thursday, September 01, 2005

Later

I'm sorry to all of you readers out there in the blogdom. I did not realize that 'later' would be two days later! I am back now and ready to blog.

Something that I found very alarming for parents and families:
"The average five-year-old spends only 25 minutes a week in close with his or her father, according to one recent survey. That same child spends 25 hours a week in close interaction with the television.
The moral of the story? If we're not commited to tour children as God expects us to be, we shouldn't expect them to be commited to us. They will find a replacement-even if it is a television set." Focus on the the Family(09/05)

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I am blessed to have Carlos and Maribel Preciado, a young couple that we are supporting to work down in the south Florida area among the Hispanic community, here with me to minister to the young families and teens. They will be here working with us for two months. I am pumped!

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I ask that you pray for me. I won't go into all the details, but I know that God will hear and understand if you lift me up to Him.

Monday, August 29, 2005

Gratitude

Thank God for the rain. As I type this blog, the sky is open and the rain is coming down. I pray that it will keep coming. We need it here in the Village and surrounding areas.

I pray also for the families in New Orleans that they will see an end to Katrina. God bless them as they face this terrible Hurricane.

Be back later with more thoughts.

Friday, August 26, 2005

Beautiful Morning

This morning I had the oppurtunity to spend an hour in a classroom full of 5th graders. I am in a rotation of adults that get to spend time with these young minds while their teachers are in conference. So, the 3rd Friday of every month I am able to share with them stories of my life and my ministry. I also get to hear their takes on Jesus and His love. I cannot think of a better way to start the day!

Thursday, August 25, 2005

Application

I just finished giving a devotional thought to the seniors that are taken care in The Good Samaritan Nursing Home and Assisted Living complex. We discussed 'Forgiveness.'

Forgiveness.

Such an easy word to say. But the application is where things get difficult.

How many of you out there have held a grudge that just kept getting larger and more painful? Something that may have begun as a little tiff suddenly snowballs into relationship damaging bitterness. And the cycle will not end until one or both parties involved say "I'm Sorry."

I have read of families and friendships being ripped apart over small things like the cost of sugar. Sad, but true.

Please, if you are embroiled in an argument with your friends or family, take the time to renew your relationship through forgiveness. Pray to God that He give you a piece of His heart and break the chain of 'unforgiveness.'

Tuesday, August 23, 2005

Quote Of The Day

"When you forgive someone, you slice away the wrong from the person who did it. You disengage that person from his hurtful act. You recreate him. At one moment you identify him ineradicably as the person who did you wrong. The next moment you change that identity. He is remade in your memory.

You think of him now not as the person who hurt you, but a person who needs you. You feel him now not as the person who alienated you, but as the person who belongs to you. Once you branded him as a person powerful in evil, but now you see him as a person weak in his needs. You recreated your past by recreating the person whose wrong made your past painful." - Lewis Smedes

Monday, August 22, 2005

About...

About the smashed van window...one of the young men from the youth group, in trying to scare one of his buddies, flat-handed one of the windows at it's weakest point and accidentally smashed it to pieces. It was a lesson in restraint and responsibility that will not be quickly forgotten. He has profusely offered to work and scrounge up extra spending money to pay it off.

About last Saturday...Walt and Shirley M. were once again gracious hosts for the youth and several young families for the Back To School Celebration with more food than we could all consume, 4 boats to ski and tube behind on Lake Balboa, and a great atmosphere for God's family to fellowship. Thanks to Walt and Shirley, John and Trish, Rick M, Doug, and Gary for providing great times!!

About my Mom...she spent the weekend with Elizabeth and me to have a nice, relaxing weekend getaway, but wound up getting more than she bargained for. She was the third in line to tube and as she jumped out of the boat her hand got caught in the crevice between the gate and the boat railing. She said later that she felt a pinch on her way down. In reality, it was more than a pinch. As she came up out of the water, I noticed that her right hand was bleeding. Thinking it was a cut, several from the boat asked if she was alright. But she had actually severed her pinky finger in half. The top of the finger was found and put on ice. We rushed my mom and her finger to the hospital, in hopes that the doctors would be able to sew the finger back on, but they were not able to do so.

My mom was a trooper during the whole ordeal. She stayed strong and God blessed her with a minimal amount of pain. She is at home now resting and recovering from quite the opposite of the weekend that she thought she would have. We love you, Mom and pray that God continues to keep you out of pain and in great health.

About life...it has a strange way of constantly changing on us.

About God...He has a great and mysterious way of taking care of us through it all.

Wednesday, August 17, 2005

Sinking In

Well, it is just now starting to sink in that my partner- in-crime, Jim Gardner, is really gone. Being here in the office without him is something that will take a while to get used to. The shepherds here have been really great and supportive. Matter of fact, Rick N. came by the office to give his support to Jeanne and me. Thanks to you men for your encouragement.

I gave the motivational address to the faculty and staff of Jessieville Schools today. My heart skips a beat when it is time for school to start back. Even though I am well out of high school, the fond memories come rushing to me. I am sure that I speak for many kids in my youth group, as well.

I have to go now. I am prepping for my sermon this coming Sunday morning. I will blog later about the incident of the young man and the smashed van window...

Tuesday, August 09, 2005

Thoughts

We are back from Camp Barton in one piece and on a spiritual high. A week full of creating and shaping memories. How many of you out there have a fond memory or Bible Camp story that you would like to share with the rest of us?

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Several of the youth met today to paint and redecorate the youth room. We worked, played and ordered in Pizza. I got a little too overzealous with my pizza order, so we will most likely be eating it again for lunch tomorrow when we meet to wrap up the room. I will be posting pics soon.
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I will miss you, Jim.

I'll miss riding in the truck and talking about everything under the sun.

I'll miss deliberating over serious matters in the office.

I'll miss 'Naw you' and 'Jim Burger?!?'

I'll miss Good Sam Chapels together.

I'll miss visiting in homes and in hospitals together.

I'll miss grilling out together before the games

The list goes on and on...